Partys without Alcohol
#1
Posted 18 April 2008 - 23:34
Everything was okay untill he said that he doesn't want to drink any Alcohol ... and that it would be nice if the other's wouldn't bring any Alcoholic Drinks with them aswell.
Since that moment everybody apparently had forgotten about some very important Meeting they had this Friday ...
So yeah, his Party ain't taking place tonight and he is quite sad about it.
So he asked me if it isn't possible to have also fun on parties without alcohol. I said something around these Lines:
"Uhm ... well, maybe it is but I had those Parties often enough when I was a little Girl - why shouldn't I drink alcohol now?"
He also doesn't beleive me that Alcohol can make you more happy (At least in some cases).
I told him that if used in correct masses in correct Situations Alcohol can increase Libido, but he wasn't capable of believing that.
" Getting more fun for Sex when you're Drunk?! Hows that even Possible?! "
" It is, just believe me ... "
Discuss.
- E.V.E.
#2
Posted 18 April 2008 - 23:43
With a small amount of booze and a small group of friends, dancing (even very badly) happens regularly, there are less inhibitions after 2 drinks without the problems of being completely hammered. I enjoy the thought of waking up in a puddle of my own vomit in a skip.
How many people were expected, what venue? What was the desired effect of the party?
#3
Posted 18 April 2008 - 23:47
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#4
Posted 18 April 2008 - 23:48
And he just wanted to celebrate the Weekend, nothing special.
Reasons why he doesn't want Alcohol there was because:
A: People already vomitted in his House in the past.
B: Couples broke up because one made out with someone else.
Actually when I think about it, when he thinks that Alcohol doesn't increase your lust for Sex, then Point B is irrelevant or not?
Well whatever, thats about it - just a normal party.
We have around 2 - 3 hardcore drinkers, the rest is just average ( A few Beer and it's enough ).
- E.V.E.
#5
Posted 18 April 2008 - 23:49
#6
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:01
If you're not drinking then few people will turn up, I'm ill atm and I really really want a pint, just because it's nicer to have some of the stress removed.
A) If people vomit, then make them clean it up and pay the costs for cleaning etc, either that or throw them out when they get too drunk, (they will only make the mistake once)
B) If you forget who you're with, or make out with someone else, tbh it's your own damn fault, when I was with my gf, I was drunk around a lot of equally drunk ladies, but I still had my head screwed on enough to recall who I was with.
If you are celebrating the weekend, then it means no early start tomorrow, that sounds like a reason to drink to me.
#7
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:13
Things like Wii's are good for parties like that.
From personal experience, Wii+ Alcohol doesn't mix, resulting in breakages, injuries, and the spilling of alcohol over the equipment.
But it's good when you're sober, or have little alcohol.
Edited by Duo Maxwell, 19 April 2008 - 00:13.
#8
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:15
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#9
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:26
I failed at spelling Alcohol - I blame alcohol
Edited by Ion Cannon!, 19 April 2008 - 00:27.
#10
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:42
If you need alcohol to have fun/have a good party then you aren't making the right sort of friends. :-/ Or you're looking for the wrong type of party.
Alcohol can loosen people up but it's also accessory to some bad **** and leads to suffering to some. For example, my grandmother who died due to alcohol related diseases when I was still quite young.
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#11
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:45
I once had friends who did nothing else than only drink some stuff when they met, but those times are over now ...
- E.V.E.
#12
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:46
E.V.E., on 19 Apr 2008, 1:34, said:
I told him that if used in correct masses in correct Situations Alcohol can increase Libido, but he wasn't capable of believing that.
Damn, this topic made me thirsty .
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#13
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:47
#14
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:49
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Join me with a couple of Glasses then, because that's exactly what I am doing at the moment: Having a nice drink.
- E.V.E.
#15
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:49
and i dont mean drink more than others by that...
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#16
Posted 19 April 2008 - 00:51
logical2u, on 19 Apr 2008, 1:42, said:
Define unnecessary, I find a looser tongue means that people speak more, seriously a party where no-one talks would suck.
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Well nudity also works...
The party livens up with booze, a dry party ends at 10:00, games like Wii could work, however there is something funny about intoxicated people playing garden jenga.
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Card games require booze, it's almost a cardinal rule.
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Posted 19 April 2008 - 01:06
#19
Posted 19 April 2008 - 01:12
#20
Posted 19 April 2008 - 01:13
Chris, on 19 Apr 2008, 2:47, said:
As for why you like wine better than beer: that will require a much better explanation .
E.V.E., on 19 Apr 2008, 2:49, said:
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Dauth, on 19 Apr 2008, 2:51, said:
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Edited by Chyros, 19 April 2008 - 01:15.
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#22
Posted 19 April 2008 - 01:26
I've never been to a 'party' since I was twelve or so - we generally invite a few friends round (about 10-15 or so) and go to a place like a laser skirmish venue or a network gaming centre for a few hours of good solid fun rather than stay at home, chatting and milling around socialising. A lot of other kids at my school drink regularly and go to such house parties, which often have their alcohol supplied by parents, however, so I'm aware of the sort of thing you're talking about.
Basically I would say that it's more than possible to have a great time without alcohol, and really you don't need it. It may loosen the tongue, which may be desirable in certain situations, and I have nothing against people having a cold beer to relax or a glass of wine with a meal, but using alcohol in lare amounts while socialising isn't what I'd call a good idea from my point of view.
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#23
Posted 19 April 2008 - 02:00
Let's change the subject a bit then : Would you's use alcohol in when you'd would visit someone you have known for a long time and would like to get together with him/her ?
(By using alcohol I don't mean " Now Drink untill you're that drunk that you don't know what you're doing! " )
This interessts me now.
- E.V.E.
#24
Posted 19 April 2008 - 02:07
#25
Posted 19 April 2008 - 02:14
E.V.E., on 19 Apr 2008, 2:00, said:
Let's change the subject a bit then : Would you's use alcohol in when you'd would visit someone you have known for a long time and would like to get together with him/her ?
(By using alcohol I don't mean " Now Drink untill you're that drunk that you don't know what you're doing! " )
This interessts me now.
- E.V.E.
Interesting point to make.
I would agree that alcohol does increase the chance two people will engage in sexual activity in some form or another. But these are just one offs, they rarely if ever lead to a stable relationship.
It also really depends if this visit is just the two of you, or a group of you. If it was a group of us, most likely we would all drink a bit anyways. But if it were just the two of us I wouldn't "use" alcohol so to speak. If she offered it, I would take it. But if you know someone well and want to make it a stable relationship. Alcohol will not help. By using alcohol to achieve that end surely you are in fact hurting someone you care about. I would never do that anyway.
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