Is it morally right to ask someone out
#1
Posted 02 July 2007 - 01:29
Should I have passed up this chance or done as I did? :wahhhhhaa:
#2
Posted 02 July 2007 - 02:27
There's also the golden rule that if it's not serious (or if things are pretty dead) seeing other people outside your area code isn't technically considered cheating. You should feel quite content with the situation regarding the facts:
A)You successfully acknowledged it was time to move on (this can be extremely difficult for some)
B)You got what you wanted
C) You were the man and put the final nail on the coffin
D) You are wondering what did was wrong, which means your good conscience will be useful when your past your twenties.
What can I say more? Enjoy your new relationship.
Edited by Overdose, 02 July 2007 - 02:28.
#3
Posted 02 July 2007 - 02:40
Edited by Solo Wing, 02 July 2007 - 02:47.
#4
Posted 02 July 2007 - 03:52
Regards,
Nuker
#5
Posted 02 July 2007 - 11:06
Go dtiomsaítear do chód gan earráidí, is go gcríochnaítear do chláir go réidh. -Old Irish proverb
#6
Posted 02 July 2007 - 13:00
#7
Posted 02 July 2007 - 22:43
Edited by Wizardofnoz, 02 July 2007 - 22:44.
#8
Posted 03 July 2007 - 02:13
Edited by Nerdsturm, 03 July 2007 - 02:52.
#9
Posted 03 July 2007 - 03:00
Morals may suggest otherwise though.
#10
Posted 03 July 2007 - 03:44
Anyways.. Small relationships like these are the foundations for marraiges in life, they're a sort of "Test" of your abilities, mentally, disciplinairily, and emotionally. "Cheating" in this way is like a "White Lie". It only gets worse, after the first time, it seems like an innocent thing to do, but in the long run, it has an effect on your life.
You know the saying, "Good things come to those who wait"?
~V.
-Tha' rewf iz awn fiyah-
#11
Posted 03 July 2007 - 08:13
There's a religious teaching I know... "God helps those who help themselves"
Honestly, there is nothing wrong with what you did, Solo. You meant to break it off, so you weren't frivolously "cheating" as such... and you didn't go any further than simply asking her out, did you? If no, then nothing morally criminal has happened.
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